Insomnia Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 So i understand people are entitled for their body and they have a right to do whatever they want. My question is, if you were going to get a tattoo, should you have a courtesy to tell your boyfriend or girlfriend ahead of time? Or you just going to get one without bother mentioning it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raynu Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 i dont think its a big deal either way. i use to be with someone who threw temper tantrums every time i got a tattoo. it was ridiculous. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 I think it is a good idea to give a heads up to avoid possible drama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CountDarkness Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 ahh.. nice.. my post was deleted 🙂 thumbs up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insomnia Posted March 6, 2021 Author Share Posted March 6, 2021 18 minutes ago, CountDarkness said: ahh.. nice.. my post was deleted 🙂 thumbs up! Just trying to keep things clean and friendly here 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CountDarkness Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 and? only tatoos on arms or face count? lol! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NerdCake Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 I mean kind of? I don't understand why you wouldn't mention it considering they're your partner and you typically talk to your partner daily so typically a person would say "I'm thinking of getting this tattoo" you know? It would come up in conversation is what I'm saying. Unless they wanted it to be a surprise then that's cool too. It's a different story if they purposely hide it because they're scared you'll be negative about it. Then that's just some toxic shit. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azucar15 Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 I just think it’s weird to not mention it to a partner. I mean most people tell people when they’re getting a new tattoo cuz they’re excited about it right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaderofdarkness997 Posted March 11, 2021 Share Posted March 11, 2021 Honestly I can see both sides. I could see and understand how someone may just want to get a tattoo without telling their partner out of free will, but I also don't see how it would hurt telling your partner that your getting a tattoo. Especially since communication is one of the key factors of a healthy relationship. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PsychoticQueeny Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I'd say you don't HAVE to but I'd say do the courtesy of telling them unless it's like a surprise for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R0BINH00D1182 Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 Depending on the length and seriousness of the relationship really. If you're in a serious long term relationship, I would think it's just polite to tell them. You're changing your body and there needs to be an openess with that. However, it's controlling (in my opinion) if you have to ask them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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