Yes, it's alive. No, it's not a "child." It's not a person. A person is viable outside the womb. The only person in the equation is the one who is pregnant, who you clearly do not care about.
It is bodily autonomy. No one is allowed to use your body without your consent. You can't force someone to donate a kidney. You can't even take an organ from a corpse without them having had agreed to it while they were alive.
If you are advocating for the rights of the embryo or the unborn instead of the pregnant person, you are advocating for special rights to a non-person.
Abstinence is not realistic. Schools in which abstinence-only is taught have the highest rates of STDs and unwanted pregnancies. Education helps prevent these things.
Birth control can fail. It is not 100%. This is why there are plenty of pregnancies that occur after contraception was used.
Learn self-defense and protection? Are you seriously blaming rape victims for being raped? How absolutely disgusting of you.
Unwanted pregnancies after consensual sex does not grant special rights for the unborn. You can consent to sex and not to pregnancy.
Murder is the intended killing of another person, including wilful neglect. Again, an embryo or even a fetus is not a person. A forced pregnancy that leads to the death of the mother is murder.
In addition, forcing a pregnant person to carry a dead fetus because of strict anti-abortion laws causes sepsis and risks the life of the pregnant person. Abortion is the solution to save the pregnant person.
An abortion is the ending of a non-viable pregnancy. How is that "murder?"
Considering you have defended rapists at this point, there is nothing further to discuss with you.
You're very uneducated and absolutely vile.
Goodbye.