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NerdCake

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  1. 10 hours ago, Insomnia said:

    We are doing ok here in the states. Things are slowly opening up. In my state we dont need to wear mask in public unless it is required by businesses

    Well that's good news. I hope we can get to that point this summer. We're also really slow on vaccinations, I think right now it's older generations and essential workers. 

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  2. It's the main city for us. Our numbers were basically none with a few in the city every once and a while. But now it's spread like wildfire and we're all paying for it because of a few irresponsible people. :facepalm2:

    I don't socialize anyway but I would like things to hurry up and go back to normal. I had to postpone my mothers funeral/celebration of life ceremony for the second time.  They say the end of May but with numbers still rising on our second week of lockdown I think it will be into the summer that we will still be in lockdown. 

    Good luck, I hope yours is lifted on the 20th. 🤞

     

  3. Well, my province recently went into lockdown again. We were doing so good for numbers too, we had a chance at a semi normal summer. *le sigh* oh well.

    Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. Don't forget to take care of yourself during these times. 

    How is everyone's weekend going?

  4. In school I was just called "The girl that wears black" :lol:

    I think if I MUST give myself a title I would just consider myself alternative, nothing too deep. I like all music and dark colors. I still wear mostly black, I painted my bedroom wall black and I have some odd decor. Recently I'm really drawn to collecting bones. I'm interested in and have practiced witchcraft and I love horror. Call it what you will I guess :shrug:

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  5. No one is perfect and I'm sure we can all agree. However some people get so lost in their toxic behaviors I just don't feel like they'll ever return. 

    I've had a very up and down relationship with my mother-in-law. She used to treat me as her own, but now I understand this was because I wouldn't say no to her and would do things her way. As I got older(I've been with her son for 10 years) I began to say no and make my boundaries very well known. Well, now our close relationship is no more, she will cry and say she has no kids, that they don't love her anymore and she has been shunned from the family. I state how this isn't true she just needs to accept boundaries (Especially when it comes to my daughter) and she refuses to see things from any perspective that isn't her own.. 

    It's so frustrating, I'm honestly at wits end and don't know what to do. Every time she insists that she is the victim that she could never do anything wrong. :facepalm2: 

    sorry for the rant here..

    They say to cut out toxic people from your life, it's honestly easier said then done since she made it a point to build a very strong relationship with our daughter and makes me feel guilty. But I really don't want that influence in my daughters life.. 

    Has anyone else dealt with someone like this?? What do you do in this situation?🥴

  6. I'm so sorry :hugs:I lost my mom Oct. 2020 and it still stings every single day, not a day goes by that I don't just wish I could pick up the phone and tell her what we did for the day or what milestones my daughter is hitting. I keep pushing through because I know she'd want me to. My daughter and boyfriend keep me moving everyday and I'm so grateful for that.

    My advice... Feel your grief, remember that everyone does it differently and some people need longer than others. My grandmother passed in Jan 2020 and my aunt still has bad days. And that's perfectly okay! It will get easier to live with :hugs:

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  7. Or am I just old at heart?:rofl:

    Anyone have a Gen Z in their life?

     

    My 14 year old niece didn't know that < 3 makes a heart in messenger. No idea what emo "was". Doesn't even know who Brittney Spear is. :shocked:

    This kid makes me feel ancient every time I visit her haha

    Gen Z just blows my mind, either really progressive or really aggressive. :lol: 

    Don't even get me started on how those little buggers sneak pot with their little vape things in school. Jeeze.

  8. I mean kind of? I don't understand why you wouldn't mention it considering they're your partner and you typically talk to your partner daily so typically a person would say "I'm thinking of getting this tattoo" you know? It would come up in conversation is what I'm saying. Unless they wanted it to be a surprise then that's cool too. 

    It's a different story if they purposely hide it because they're scared you'll be negative about it. Then that's just some toxic shit. :shrug:

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